Welcome to the world of weaning, a world that is full of lots of information from many sources; information that can often be conflicting and may leave you feeling confused and unsure.
Firstly, I want to let you know that I am no expert. I am a mum of two boys, a health visitor with 14 years experience and more years as a sick children’s nurse before that.
In my mind, the only expert is YOU, the parent. You are the one that knows your baby better than anyone else, you are the one that knows what they need and when, not me or anyone else.
So what is it that you want to know about weaning? When to start? How will you know when your baby is ready? What foods to give and when; how much and how often? What about milk feeds and water? Can you give juice or any other drinks, and should it be from a bottle or cup? Are there foods that you shouldn’t give and how should you cook them? What about jars and packets, sugar and salt?
So, where to begin? Let’s get the research bit out of the way first. The latest research available from the World Health Organization shows that babies need nothing but their mum’s milk or formula for the first 6 months of their lives. This gives a baby’s digestive system time to develop enough for them to manage solid foods.
However, we know that every baby is unique and their needs are different and that’s why I want to encourage you to recognise what your baby needs.
The British Dietetic Association suggests that term infants (born between 37 and 42 weeks) should begin weaning by 6 months and not before 4 months (17 weeks). Within their report, they have identified research that suggests that in developed countries there are no reported disadvantages to beginning weaning onto solid foods between 4 and 6 months compared with waiting until 6 months
So how would you know that your baby is ready for solid foods?
Your baby will start –
- Putting toys and other objects in their mouth
- Chewing their fists
- Watching others with interest when they are eating
- To be hungry between milk feeds or demand feeds more often even though larger milk feeds have been offered?
From around 4 and 6 months your baby will generally start to do the above and this seems to be the best time to start solids because, from this age they learn to accept new tastes and textures relatively quickly.
(around this time your baby may also start to wake more at night, this doesn’t necessarily mean they are hungry and starting solids may not help them sleep through the night again). .
Ok, you have decided that your baby is ready and you are going to try them with some solids and they are between four to six months
Weaning is a learning process and your baby will only learn to accept and enjoy new tastes and textures if they are given the opportunity to try them.
They will need to learn –
- to take food from a spoon
- move food from the front of their mouth to the back for swallowing
- manage thicker purees and mashed food
When & How?
You need to find a time in the day that suits you and your baby; find a time when they are awake and alert but not expecting a milk feed. Try and be relaxed about the whole experience and enjoy it together.
What consistency?
Begin with a smooth puree and then move onto to mashed foods. From 6 months start offering soft finger foods.
What foods?
(Advice for this age group has recently changed to include foods that were previously not allowed)
Once you baby is able to eat solid foods you will need to offer a variety of foods from all 4 food groups to make sure that they get all the nutrients that they need and ideally these foods should be the nutritious family foods that you will expect them to eat when they are toddlers.
Foods to include are: -
All vegetables & fruits
Potatoes, rice, oats, pasta, bread and other cereals
Lentils, chick peas, pulses, dhal, hummus and smooth nut butters.
Full fat yogurt and cheese (full fat milk can also be used during cooking).
Meat, fish and eggs,
Jars & Packets?
If you choose to use either jars or packets/ or a combination of both that is OK. Just make sure that the foods you are giving are age appropriate and offer a variety of different tastes.
How much?
Allow your baby to lead the way, as a healthy baby will know how much or how little they want.
(NEVER FORCE YOUR BABY TO EAT IF THEY DON’T WANT TO).
How often?
Start with offering solids once per day and gradually increase as you feel your baby needs, gradually increasing the amount of food that they have so that by one year old they are having breakfast, lunch, tea and a mid morning and afternoon snack each day.
What about milk and other drink?
Continue with milk feeds and only offer cooled boiled water to formula fed babies if it is a very hot day and you think they may be thirsty between feeds.
(YOUR BABY DOES NOT NEED BABY JUICE/ SQUASH).
Salt & Sugar
Don’t add sugar, salt or stock cubes when cooking your own foods. Jars and packets must comply with regulations that monitor their sugar, fat and salt content.
Allergies
If you, your baby’s father or your other children have asthma, eczema, hay fever or food allergies then ideally your baby should be breastfed throughout weaning and the high allergen foods should be introduced one at a time so that if they do react, you’ll know which food it is. There is no clear evidence to suggest that delaying the introduction of these foods until after 6 months reduces the risk of allergy however, you may prefer to do this.
The high allergen foods are milk, eggs, fish, shellfish, wheat, soya, peanuts, tree nuts, sesame seeds, lupins, celery and mustard.
Vegetarian & Vegan
Babies don’t need meat and fish to stay healthy, just make sure that you give a variety of foods such as eggs, milk, grains, pulses and cereals. If you are thinking of weaning your baby on a vegan diet, it may be worth asking for a referral to a dietician for some advice.
Premature Infants
The best time to begin weaning is likely to be sometime around 5 - 8 months after your baby’s actual birth date. For the majority, it may be better to delay starting solids until 3 months after their estimated date of delivery (EDD) so that they can develop enough. You can also speak to your dietician and medical team and more information is available on weaning babies born prematurely from BLISS (www.BLISS.org.uk)
Vitamins?
If you are breastfeeding your baby , you will need to take 10mcg of vitamin D every day and it is also recommended that toddlers between 1 – 5 years old take a vitamin D supplement too (especially, if they are fussy eaters and from ethnic minorities with dark skin).
What equipment will you need?
All bowls & spoons will need to be sterilised until 6 months.
Feed your baby in a baby chair or while they are sitting on your lap.
NEVER LEAVE YOUR BABY ALONE WHEN FEEDING
From 6 - 9 months
Your baby will need to learn to –
- move lumps around their mouth
- chew lumps
- feed themselves using hands and fingers
- sip from a cup
Food to give -
Mashed food with soft lumps
Soft finger foods
Soft pieces of fruit
Cooked vegetable sticks - carrot & courgette sticks, green bean, potato and sweet potato
Cooked vegetable pieces – broccoli & cauliflower florets
Cheese cubes
Crusts of bread or toast
Roasted vegetable sticks - parsnip, pepper, carrot, courgette, potato & sweet potato
(You can now introduce liver, limit it to one small serving per week because of high levels of vitamin A).
Drinks
Offer in a lidded beaker or cup – sticking to water, formula milk or well diluted fruit juice.
Vitamins
Breastfed babies need to be given a vitamin supplement containing vitamins A & D from 6 months old. Formula fed babies can wait until they are about 1 year old or when they are taking less than 500mls (20ozs) of formula per day.
Infants who are weaned at or near 6 months will need to be moved from smooth pureed foods onto the second stage of weaning (mashed/ finger foods) more quickly than those weaned earlier to ensure continued development of normal feeding behaviour and continued nutritional adequacy. In particular mashed food with soft lumps and soft finger foods and foods high in iron including meat, oily fish and pulses should be introduced from around 6 months.
From 9 -12 months
Your baby will need to learn to
- chewing minced and chopped food
- self-feeding attempts with a spoon
Offer –
Hard finger foods - raw fruit & vegetables
Minced and chopped foods
Sandwiches & toast
Family foods – that have been prepared without salt & sugar
(Nuts should be crushed, chopped or ground)
Drinks
Offer a cup of water with each meal and milk feeds should be reduced (if your little one hasn’t done it already), to 2 -3 each day.
From 12 months onwards
Your toddler should now be joining in and enjoying family meals.
You can now give them -
Honey
Foods that have been preserved with salt – bacon & tinned foods with salt.
Unpasteurised soft cheeses
Foods with added sugar (only offered at mealtimes to prevent tooth decay)
Foods to avoid until they are around 5 years include –
Whole nuts
Raw shell fish
Bran and breakfast cereals that have bran in them
Drinks
Cow’s milk should be introduced from one year old and full fat milk until 2 years old; semi-skimmed until 5 years (follow-on formula and growing up milk may be given to toddlers who don’t eat well, but be careful that they don’t fill up on milk and have no room for food)
Offer milk from a cup and ideally, stop all drinks from bottles. Limit milk to 100-120mls (3-4 ozs) 3 times per day or less if they are eating cheese and yoghurt regularly.
Offer your toddler 6-8 drinks throughout the day. One with each meal and one in between meals/ with a snack (this also includes milk drinks).